Kukhala pachibwenzi nthawi zina kumamva ngati mukuyendetsa malo opangira mabomba. Kulankhulana bwino n’kofunika kwambiri kuti mukhalebe paubwenzi wabwino. Ndiye nkhaniyo Tiyenera Kulankhula amayesa kuyendetsa galimoto kunyumba.
Tiyenera Kulankhula ndichinthu cha chibwenzi sim chimakumana ndi buku lowoneka. Cholinga chake ndi kukhala ndi kukambirana momveka bwino kuti ayendetse nkhaniyi. Zotsatira zake ndi zosangalatsa koma zodziwikiratu.
"Ndimakonda bwanji nthawi zonse?"
Kusewera kulikonse kumayamba mwanjira yomweyo. Khalidwe lanu liri mu bar yodziwika bwino momwe mumayendera kangapo pa sabata (mumaphunzira izi kudzera mukukambirana). Munthu woyamba amene mumacheza naye ndi bartender.
"Poizoni wako ndi chiyani usikuuno, cutie?" Anafunsa ataona kuti bwenzi lako Samantha palibe.
Titakumana mwachidule (ndi mwayi wokopana), Samantha amalembera mameseji omwe umanena kuti adapanga chakudya chamadzulo. Ndi zochitika zonsezi - kaya mwa-munthu pa bar kapena kudzera m'mawu - masewerawa amakupatsani mwayi wa momwe mungayankhire. Kawirikawiri, izi zimaphatikizapo kupanga ziganizo kuchokera ku mayina, maverebu, kapena ziganizo.
Lingaliro apa ndikusewera kangapo kuti muwone momwe kusankha mawu kumakhudzira ubale wanu ndi anthu osiyanasiyana. Chofunika kwambiri ndi ubale ndi bwenzi lanu, yemwe akudandaula kuti mumathera nthawi yochuluka ku bar. Kutengera ndi momwe mumalankhulirana, usiku wanu utha kutha ndikutha - kapena mutha kuyandikirana wina ndi mnzake.
Lingaliro labwino lomwe likufunika kuzama kwambiri
Lingaliro kumbuyo kwa masewerawa ndilosangalatsa kwenikweni. Kutha kulankhulana bwino ndi anthu osawadziwa, anzathu komanso okondedwa n’kofunika kwambiri. Ndipo Tiyenera Kulankhula imagwira ntchito yabwino yopanga izi - makamaka ndi Sam - kumva ngati zokambirana zenizeni. Ndipotu, sindinkamasuka kumuuza zinthu zoipa, ngakhale kuti si weniweni.
Pazovuta, Tiyenera Kulankhula zimakusiyani ndi zizindikiro za otchulidwa, koma sizimafufuza mozama mokwanira. Wogulitsa mowa, bwenzi lakale lomwe mumakumana nalo ku bar, ndi bwenzi lanu lamakono amakudziwitsani kuti mulipo kwambiri. Zimasiya kuganiza kuti ndinu chidakwa. Ndipo ngakhale Sam akuwonetsa kukhudzidwa, masewerawa samayesa kulowa mu chilichonse choposa kusatetezeka kwa mtsikanayo.
Mawu ndi ofunika
M'malo mokuuzani kuti ndinu ndani, mumasiyidwa kuti musankhe munthu (momwe ndidasewera). Kodi ndinu wachinyengo woledzera mukuyenda pabalaza? Kapena ndinu mnzanu wachifundo yemwe akuyesera kuti apumule pa bala yomwe mumakonda kwambiri? Izo zonse zimadalira mawu anu kusankha.
Masewerawa ali ndi mathero angapo omwe angathe kuwulula. Kutengera ndi chithunzi chakunyumba chomwe chimakuwonetsani zomwe mwamaliza, zikuwoneka ngati zili ndi mathero asanu ndi anayi onse. Koma sizimamira mozama mokwanira kuti zikhutitse, zomwe ndi zamanyazi.
Palibe kusiyana kokwanira kuchokera pa sewero limodzi kupita kwina kulungamitsa kusewera kawiri kapena katatu. M'malo mwake, zimayamba kumva kukhala zotopetsa kuyang'ana mizere yamakambirano olembedwa omwe angatchulidwe mosiyana kuti apereke tanthauzo lina.
Tsoka ilo, masewerawa amatha kumenyedwa mkati mwa mphindi 20 mpaka 30. Izi zimakusiyani ndi ulendo waufupi komanso mwayi wosowa wofufuza anthuwa mozama. Osachepera ndi mwayi wabwino kwa zikho zosavuta ngati ndicho chinthu chanu.
Kutsiliza
Tiyenera Kulankhula ndi lingaliro laudongo, koma kwenikweni latha mu kung'anima. Popeza izi ndi zamtengo wapatali $6.99 zokha, zimapeza pang'ono pang'ono pa chiwerengero chimenecho. Koma zikadakhala zabwino kuwona nkhani yayitali, yokhazikika. Kuphatikiza apo, zingakhale bwino kuwona zochitika zosiyanasiyana zokhala ndi zilembo zingapo m'malo mongobwereza zomwezo pogwiritsa ntchito mizere yosiyana. Tsoka ilo, sichosankha.
